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Why Should I Be Diligent?

Image result for image of a woman sweepingThrough our kitchen remodel confusion, I’m learning more about life and our growth in the Lord. I now realize that diligence isn’t applied disorder spreads. It’s contagious.

Half of our house is chaos, with kitchen countertops gone, step ladders in the middle of the floor, varying tools scattered around, a sink leaning against the wall, broom and dustpan handy, and more. The nature of the clutter and its placement depends on what’s being worked on at the time.

The dining room is cluttered with a temporary kitchen set up in it. The office is stacked with boxes of things from the cabinets. The front porch is designated for sawing and trash collection, and the path traveled from point to point is covered with scatter rugs to protect the floor.

Ordered chaos is necessary to get the job done. But, I’ve learned that disorder in one area of the house makes it easier to slack off in other parts of the home. The mess spreads from room to room because disorder breeds further disorder.

Confusion in one room makes it harder to stay diligent in maintaining order in the rest of the house. Furthermore, debris from one room gets tracked to another. If it don’t stay on top of it, the house whole house is involved.

Isn’t it the same in life? When I’m diligent to exercise, it’s easier to carefully monitor my food intake. Likewise, when exercise falters, I’m less motivated to watch my eating habits. Diligenct discipline in one area encourages it in others.

The Bible indicates that we will rewarded for diligence. “The soul of a lazy man desires, and has nothing; but the soul of the diligent shall be made rich” (Prov. 13:4).

The principle is true in our spiritual life too. Discipline in one area of our walk with God affects the whole. When someone misses church for a spell, it becomes easier to sleep in the next Sunday.When time in the Word is crowded out, prayer life is negatively impacted. And so it goes.  The longer we allow slack discipline in our relationship with God, the harder it is to re-establish proper order.

Consequently, God encourages us to “Be diligent to present yourself approved to God, a worker who does not need to be ashamed, rightly dividing the word of truth. But shun profane and idle babblings, for they will increase to more ungodliness” (2 Tim. 2:15-16).

“Therefore, beloved, . . . be diligent to be found by Him in peace, without spot and blameless; and consider that the longsuffering of our Lord is salvation . . .. You therefore, beloved, since you know this beforehand, beware lest you also fall from your own steadfastness, being led away with the error of the wicked; but grow in the grace and knowledge of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ. To Him be the glory both now and forever. Amen” (2 Pet. 3:13-18).

I’m tired of interrupting my agenda to sweep and vacuum the floor, but when I slack off, it is quite evident because dust from sawing wood and small pieces of stripped wallpaper end up tracked through the house.

In other areas of my life, the lack of diligence isn’t obvious so quickly, but according to the Word, it’s important—especially that we grow in the grace and knowledge of our Lord Jesus Christ. That’s probably the area where it is easiest to slack off, but it’s also the most important.

If I can see the importance of diligence in sweeping the floor, how much more important is it in building a relationship with the Lord? That not only affects every area of life. It also brings Him glory “both now and forever (2 Pet. 3:18).”

Maintaining due diligence is in seeking the kingdom of God and His righteousness (Mt. 6:33) is a much more important and lofty goal than keeping trash from tracking through the house. But the need for wielding a broom helped me to see the damage done by not maintaining the lofty goal.

 

Time for Renovation

img_0689Have you noticed how God uses every day circumstances to speak into life? Our latest project is a case in point.

We’ve just begun remodeling our kitchen. We’re tearing out so we can rebuild. The ceiling, walls, and floor are all in various stages of disruption.

And I’m thrilled.

The kitchen has needed renovations for years and I’m grateful that the task has begun—in spite of the mess and challenges it brings. Our dining room has become a temporary kitchen, and we’ll live in make-do confusion for at least a month and likely longer.

At the moment there is a large hole in the ceiling, so the center portion can be raised and lights rearranged. Wallpaper is mostly stripped, flooring is mostly removed, extensive backsplash is partially stripped, and the sink—with surrounding cabinet—has been removed. In short, it’s a mess.

Furthermore, each step seems to be revealing unexpected complications. (Though I don’t know why challenges are a surprise, because it seems that all renovations include “unexpected” problems.)

Within a week of starting the project, Robert began our noon meal blessing with, “Lord, what have we gotten ourselves into?”

Also, within a week, in our Bible study, we considered Jesus’ words, “Most assuredly, I say to you, unless a grain of wheat falls into the ground and dies, it remains alone; but if it dies, it produces much grain. “He who loves his life will lose it, and he who hates his life in this world will keep it for eternal life (Jn. 12:24-25).

Jesus was referring to spiritual matters, laying down our lives for Him, increase in the kingdom, and such. He was speaking of things that really matter in life, not about kitchens.

However, since I’m immersed in demolishing our kitchen, I was very aware that we could never have the kitchen we dream of if we hold onto (love) our former kitchen—whether because we choose the style or because we dreaded the mess, expense, and hard work.

That’s obvious, but the analogy showed me less apparent things as I considered it from the other perspective.

When we choose to trust our lives to Jesus Christ, we die to self to trust in Him. We choose to love Him more than ourselves, resulting in eternal life in Him and all that entails.

We are new beings in Him, but the transformation in our daily lives has just begun. The old doesn’t suddenly take on the full essence and expression of a new life.

We spend the rest of our lives being remodeled as He shapes us into His image.

The old things in our lives need to be removed to make room for the new. Sometimes it is messy. And complicated.

We run into unexpected problems we hadn’t been aware of, but they  need to be fixed before we can move on in Him.

Sometimes, we don’t know how to fix the snags. We have to take it one step at a time, and maybe get counsel from someone with more experience and knowledge. (An short visit from a friend solved an electrical problem that baffled us.)

We may get weary, but we press on for the hope that is set before us.

With our kitchen, we’re committed. It’s now in total disrepair. If we want a functioning kitchen, we must press through.

In our lives, it isn’t that simple. Our God allows us to stay in chaos. It doesn’t matter what kind of mess we are, we can choose to say, “No. I’m not willing to go any deeper.” Or, “No, I’m not willing to open up to someone else about my problem.”

God wants the best for us, but we must choose to embrace the process of change in order to keep moving forward with Him.

It’s often hard and feels like death as we turn loose of our old nature. That’s probably why Jesus chose to tell His disciples, “If anyone desires to come after Me, let him deny himself, and take up his cross daily, and follow Me (Lk. 9:23).

We may have died to self to become a Christian, but to follow Jesus daily, we must deny ourselves and die daily, pressing through the hard and messy times.

The problem with our remodeling is that we don’t choose the time or the method. It usually happens through hardships. Whether through interruptions in our agenda, health issues, financial insecurity, or loss, we rarely invite those things into our lives. Neither do they come with a sign, “Time for Renovation.”

Consequently, we don’t immediately recognize them as an opportunity for our growth in Christlikeness. If, when we face adversity, we learn to look to God with expectancy–for His provision as well as for our growth and change–we’ll find a new measure of grace for the challenge. We’ll have added strength for pressing through.

As I type this, I’m taking a break from sweeping up and throwing away ripped up flooring, stripping wallpaper, and preparing a meal that required running between dining room, kitchen, and bathroom to meet all my needs. My body aches. I want to quit, but I press on because of my hope and dream of a new kitchen.

What is a measly kitchen compared to being all that the Lord wants me to be? I’m not even all I want me to be, much less what He envisions for me.

But I have a hope and dream of being more like Christ. If, in the midst of the project, I can be thrilled about a lowly kitchen, I surely can learn to be expectant and welcoming when it’s time for my personal renovation. How about you?